Mom Explains Why Her 7 ‘Feral’ Kids Have No Rules And Don’t Even Have To Attend School

by Ileana Paules-Bronet
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Gemma and Lewis Rawnsley live in northern England with their seven children:

Skye is 13, Finlay is 12, Phoenix is 9, Pearl is 8, Hunter is 5, Zephyr is 3, and Woolf is 1.

None of the Rawnsley children go to school — and no, they’re not homeschooled. Gemma and Lewis just don’t believe their kids should have to follow rules created by adults.

Instead, these so-called “feral” kids get to make all their own decisions. They choose how they want to dress, what they want to eat, what activities they want to do each day, and when they want to go to bed each night.

Gemma says she doesn’t want her kids to have to grow up too quickly.

The 35-year-old mom wants her seven little ones to really get to enjoy being children, which means she doesn’t want to set boundaries for them.

Her kids are allowed to swear, dye and cut their own hair, get tattoos and piercings, and do lots of other “adult” activities.

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You never know what you’ll find on any given day in the Rawnsley household.

One child might be swinging an axe outside, another might be cutting their own hair, and yet another might be eating ice cream straight out of the carton.

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Gemma and Lewis, parents of seven little ones, have very few rules for their children.

The kids are allowed to do basically anything they want. From choosing what they do each day to getting piercings and tattoos, they don’t really have any boundaries.

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Gemma knows some people think she has a “feral” family, but she doesn’t see it that way.

None of the Rawnsley kids attend school. Instead, they spend their days at home or at the park doing whatever is most fun.

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Gemma grew up in a loveless home fraught with violence, so she wanted her kids to have a completely different experience.

Now, Gemma and Lewis raise their kids with one mission: to help them lead interesting, happy, fun, and fulfilling lives.

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It’s not that Gemma doesn’t parent her children, it’s just that she gives them the freedom to live.

She weighs all the pros and cons of everything her kids ask to do. If she thinks the kids can learn something from the experience, she’ll let them proceed.

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For example, many people might think that letting kids swing pick axes is too dangerous, but Gemma sees it as a calculated decision to help teach her children responsibility.

The Rawnsley parents don’t think school is always necessary for kids — they can learn a lot just from experiencing life.

pearl shaving head

When 8-year-old Pearl wanted to shave her head one day, her hairdresser mom simply handed her the clippers and told her how to do it.

The kids may be a bit behind in academics, but they have a lot of life experience that other kids don’t have.

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Skye and Finlay, the two eldest kids, originally went to school, but then Gemma and Lewis decided the schooling system wasn’t right for their family.

Nine-year-old Phoenix never went to school, and he didn’t want to learn to read until six months ago. Once he expressed interest, though, Gemma and Lewis began teaching him.

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When the kids are interested, their parents teach them how to read and write, but they don’t give them any exams or follow any official curriculum.

The only rules the kids are forced to follow? Don’t lie, don’t be offensive, and don’t hurt anyone.

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Although people may think it’s weird, Gemma says they get a lot of compliments on their children’s behavior.

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Find out more about the Rawnsley family on Channel 4’s Feral Families.