Philip lives in Rome, New York with his wife, Jessica. Jessica is a stroke nurse who dedicates herself every day to caring for the lives of others. Though she never whines or complains, Philip knows that deep down she’s exhausted and overworked.
Recently, Philip shared a letter he wrote on Facebook in dedication to his hardworking wife.
He watched Jessica sit down for a hurried dinner after a 14-hour shift. Her dinner was a sandwich, by the way. She had just enough time to eat and get ready for bed, then go back to work the next day and do it all over again. “She doesn’t like to be bothered in the morning and I respect that,” Philip writes on Facebook. “She showers, throws her hair up, grabs her lunch gives the dog and me a kiss and heads out the door.” Time and time again, we hear about women who feel under-appreciated by their spouses.
But none of this is lost on Philip.
Wait until you see this husband’s message to the world…
Please note: This story was inspired by Bobby Wesson via Facebook (original post below).
“This is my wife taking a nap. In an hour she will wake up, put on her scrubs and get ready for work.
The tools and items she needs to perform her job will be gathered and checked meticulously – her hair and makeup will be done quickly. She will complain that she looks awful. I will disagree, emphatically, and get her a cup of coffee.
She will sit on the couch with her legs crossed under her and try to drink it while happily playing with the toddler that’s crawling all over her.
She will occasionally stare off blankly as we talk; silently steeling herself for the coming shift. She thinks I don’t notice.
She will kiss the baby, she will kiss me and she will leave to go take care of people that are having the worst day of their entire lives. Car wrecks, gunshot wounds, explosions, burns and breaks – professionals, poor, pastors, addicts and prostitutes – mothers, fathers, sons, daughters and families – it doesn’t matter who you are or what happened to you.
She will take care of you.
She will come home 14 hours later and remove shoes that have walked through blood, bile, tears and fire from aching feet and leave them outside.
Sometimes she will not want to talk about it. Sometimes she can’t wait to talk about it.
Sometimes she will laugh until she cries and sometimes she will just cry – but regardless of those sometimes she will be on time for her next shift.
My wife is a nurse. My wife is a hero.”