Children with autism are unique. They have special skills and talents, but certain situations are more difficult for them than they would be for other children.
One in 42 boys is on the autism spectrum, but knowing the early signs can help both children and parents.
Kris Cruickshank and his wife have two incredible boys, ages 4 and 6, who both have autism. One thing that’s often difficult for the boys, especially the older one, who is nonverbal, is dealing with the hassle of public places.
The boys’ parents know that traveling with their sons poses some challenges, but they wanted to visit family in another country, so they hoped for the best.
While going through Aberdeen Airport in Scotland, their older son got overwhelmed. But as the parents tried to calm him down, airport staff got involved.
Instead of making things more difficult for the family, they went out of their way to help out.
[H/T: Love What Matters]
Kris wrote about what happened on the Facebook page Love What Matters, where his story quickly went viral, with over 8,000 reactions.
My wife and I and our two sons at 6 and 4 travelled through the airport on Friday 7th of July on our way back to Norway after visiting family. We regularly travel through Aberdeen airport as we’ve been living abroad for nearly four years now.
Both our children are autistic and our oldest’s autism is severe and he also has other severe learning difficulties.
Public places, queues, background noise and the hassle of traveling can be extremely difficult for him to handle and can often result in severe autistic meltdowns and intense self harming. When we arrived at the airport he was a bit distressed at the desk and the lassie behind the desk did her best and asked him if he wanted to push the button that took the bags away.
We mentioned he was autistic and had other learning disabilities and that he is non verbal and has next to no understanding of language.
She offered us assistance but we declined as we’d hoped things would be okay once he was on the move again. We got to security which was slightly busy and as we approached the rollers he could not cope anymore and had a very intense meltdown.
My wife and I did our best to calm him down and stop him from hurting himself whilst still trying to keep an eye on his little brother and keep putting our things up on the security belts.
We said to the lady at security he was autistic as we were aware we were holding up everyone. We were amazed at what happened next.
The lady working at security told all of her colleagues at security to stop rolling all the bags going through X-ray and to stop the noise. She called over a couple more of her colleagues to assist us.
They took my wife and oldest son through the metal detector and into a quiet room so our oldest son could calm down and have some peace and quiet and they also helped me with the bags and everything else that had to go through security and even had a laugh and a joke with our youngest son getting him through the metal detector as a way of keeping him occupied.
Then they helped me with the bags at the other end and showed me to where my wife and oldest son was and told us to take as long as we needed in the room.
Our oldest calmed down after 5 minutes and after that to him it was as if nothing had happened. Typical! We sat down and got the kids some juice and something to eat at the Globe restaurant whilst we waited to board.
We went to the gate and the lassie there told us her colleague from the check in desk had informed her our children had autism and offered us the option of boarding first or last.
We usually wait until last but our oldest was exhausted after his ordeal and we were worried he may become agitated again. She checked our boarding passes and passports and sent us down the corridor to another lassie who was waiting to open the doors once she had radio confirmation that the plane was ready.
She was also very helpful and was great with the kids and by coincidence had worked with autistic teenagers previously.
We boarded the plane and got the kids comfortable and our oldest fell asleep soon after take off.
My wife and I would like to pass on our sincerest gratitude to all the staff at Aberdeen airport for everything they did on Friday afternoon for us and the kids. Without them we don’t think we would have been able to fly that day.
Seriously Aberdeen Airport, FANTASTIC! We cannot believe the efforts your staff went to and kindness they showed. Well done to you all for recognizing invisible disabilities! 5 STARS!!!!!
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